Not really, it's the dictionary of record for the Spanish language and what is commonly used in academia and dinner table debates. As to whether people feel bound to it or not it's the same as how people use any other language colloquially, i.e. a dictionary is largely irrelevant or an afterthought. I have also never come across someone personally arguing against it as a "bunch of Europeans telling them how to speak their own language," most of us are pretty aware of the fact that our language descended from Castilian Spanish.