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points by yodsanklai 1 day ago | 0 comments
> Work to live, don't live to work

This is a bit of a cliché. Many people have the option to stop working, they don't because they love what they do. How would that be less worth pursuing than other things? not everybody feel like spending their time on hobbies or family.

[–] Aurornis 1 day ago
> not everybody feel like spending their time on hobbies or family.

Most people don't pick one thing and put all of their time into it. They balance priorities.

You don't pick one and ignore the others.

Even the most family-minded people I know enjoy having something to work on outside of family time.

[–] yfw 1 day ago
And many who dont have the choice because of the increased cost of living?
[–] sapientiae3 1 day ago
I think it’s saying one is a means to an end, and the other is the end itself. We need work for so much more than money, and it is good. But work should never be the end.
[–] yodsanklai 1 day ago
> But work should never be the end.

Why not? if some people think that work is the most meaningful pursuit of their life, why not. I knew people like that, my dentist for instance, he was working all the time because that's what he liked to do.

Of course, not everybody has the luxury to have a fulfilling job, and some people work more than what they'd like. But saying things like that on your deathbed you'll be full of regrets because they worked too much is a bit naive.

[–] scratcheee 1 day ago
You’re not wrong, if someone is willing to let family, friends, hobbies, etc fall to the wayside and dedicate themselves to work above all else, that isn’t inherently wrong, and could be a satisfying life.

But do consider the implications. I’d argue that the compensation you need to seek changes. Working for others in such a context is throwing away the only autonomy you have (having discarded other avenues), so if work is your life, you really need to work for yourself, or at least own and control your working conditions to some extent. Otherwise you’re just a hamster in a wheel. Clearly money is of little value once you decide to forgo any real use of money. The only thing you can trade for your work is ownership of the product you produce.

[–] dominotw 1 day ago
> because they love what they do.

mostly inertia and dont know what to do with themselves because they never developed any other part of their personality.

[–] AdrianB1 1 day ago
The answer is also a bit of a cliche; the people who can stop working, and don't, have a different motivation than "work for paying the bills". They don't "work", they actively have fun doing what they like to do, with no financial pressure, they are living the dream.
[–] red-iron-pine 1 day ago
who loves being a trcuk driver? are you going to clock in on your off hours to be a process engineer and do requirements reviews?

shit even if you love coding that =/= working on other people's projects.