Neither, just be neutral and use caveman speak. It saves tokens. Being polite consumes extra tokens, and being rude can risk you getting banned. So use caveman speak, save tokens. The best part is, you'll get curt responses as well, without any cringy flowery language that LLMs are known for.

In fact, there's even a skill for it: https://github.com/juliusbrussee/caveman